Realising you need to change is often a harsh awakening, but that's just momentary. Enforcing the change is often a long, uphill process.
Welcome to the journey of defeating the dog. I realised I needed to change last year. I have four defined conditions - anxiety/panic disorder, asperger syndrome, depression and obsessive compulsive disorder. As a result, the first 20 odd years of my life have been a tumultuous tale of confusion, discouragement and unhappiness. As far as mental distress goes, I got pretty far. Several doctors, psychologists and hospital stays later, I found myself exhausted with life.
After my last discharge from hospital however, exhaustion gave way to movtivation, finally. I was motivated by the fact that quite frankly, I was a loser. I was in my twenties but I was not living like a mature adult. My hospital stays had left me a bitter, angry person more than willing to take this anger out on the innocent bystander for the slightest offence. I was fat and my memory was shot to shit so I couldn't work or concentrate on my studies. I had to live at home with my family who were resentful of me for all my disability, illness and money wasted on medical bills had put them through (their words, not mine.)
I could have put up with this. I could have drifted through life, uneducated, unemployed, proved my family, the kids at school and the self rightous hospital staff right. But as Oprah Winfrey said, success is the best revenge. So I started trying to life like an adult. I returned to uni, moved out of home and joined a few sports clubs to get fit and get out of the house.
This is just the beginning though. Depression and anxiety don't magically go away when you leave hospital or come off your meds. OCD isn't gone when you learn to control it. Asperger syndrome never stops sabotaging you, never! My journey will have many parts. I need to get a job when my studies are over, make friends and keep the friends I have happy. I have to navigate a world that I don't understand and am afraid off when all I really want is to hide in my room watching anime for all eternity. But the responsible adult does not do this.
I'm going to try. It will be difficult but I've got no choice. So journey on - whether you are neurotypical or also 'unique-minded' the world doesn't stop just because you do.
Voyager
